Tuesday, December 06, 2005

Christmas Traditions

This will be Lawrence and my fourth Christmas as a married couple and second Christmas as parents, and I can't say that I've been good at or inspired to begin many new traditions of our own. I recently began reading a book, Treasuring God in Our Traditions by Noel Piper and have been freshly challenged and inspired to consider how I might build our family's traditions around God.

She tells of her experience as a new mother, realizing that for everything she and her husband did, she would have a little one asking, "why". She writes, "Why?" I realized that was a question I was going to have to answer from now on, not just for Christmas traditions that particular year, but for all years and every day. At that moment I knew that "just because" was no answer. Nor was "because that's the way Grandmother or Granddaddy do it" or "because it's pretty" or "because it's convenient" or "because that's what everybody does."

So in an attempt to make our traditions meaningful in the Almengor household, particularly at Christmas, I'm soliciting for input from others, for I have nearly no good ideas on my own. If there is anyone still reading blogs at this time of year, let me hear from you. What traditions have you incorporated in your home that help your family remember God, think upon God, center their thoughts and festivities around God?

9 Comments:

At 4:10 PM, Blogger Kristin said...

This isn't probably that huge or unique of an idea, but growing up - Christmas Eve was always reserved for just my immediate family. Before dinner somebody in my family would read the Christmas story from the Bible. We also would set up the nativity scene and not put the baby in the manger until Christmas. That was to help us anticipate the birth of the Savior.

 
At 12:58 PM, Blogger Danielle said...

Kristin, my family did the same thing on Christmas Eve. After the Christmas Eve service we'd make snacks: steamed shrimp, cookies, hot cocoa, egg nog, etc. and my Dad would read the Christmas story from Luke, then we'd sing Christmas carols. This helped us focus on the real reason we were celebrating.

Another thing I loved was an advent calendar. They were such fun growing up. We couldn't wait to bounce out of bed and run and open the window for that day. I'm sure you can buy them at the Christian bookstore.

An advent wreath was something we did a few years as well. I don't remember the details of that, I'm sure you can find them online.

 
At 3:10 PM, Blogger Suzanne said...

I asked for this book for Christmas. If I don't get it, I'll have to purchase it on my own. :)

Our boys' birthday is on the 22nd so we are learning to adapt to a Chrismas birthday and Christmas. We want to make both special.....

I noticed that you said that this is your 4th Christmas as a married couple and 2nd Christmas as a parent. Almost the same for us, except our boys were only 3 days old on their first Christmas and in the NICU - I was still in the hospital....interesting Christmas. Not a tradition I want to continue.

 
At 8:02 PM, Blogger Kristie said...

We have a couple of books: "Christmas Miracle of Jonathon Toomey" and "Crippled Lamb" that we keep packed with the Christmas decorations. That way they are only read at Christmas time. They have become special to our guys.
Also, we sing carols on Christmas together. Yes, it sounds awful, but it's fun and it helps keep us humble.

 
At 12:49 PM, Blogger Briana Almengor said...

Thank you to all who commented. I'd still love to hear from more of you out there! I love all of the things mentioned, but I know we couldn't do it all. SO, now the hard part is to pick and choose what would be most meaningful and work well with our family dynamics and circumstance.

The Lord did remind me of two things we initiated for our Christmas season a couple years ago. One is a Christmas gift we give anonymously every year to a family or families in our church. I guess that is our "birthday gift" to Jesus. Eventually, we will be able to include the boys in on this, too. Also, when we receive a Christmas card in the mail, we pray for that individual or family that evening at dinner.

 
At 5:25 PM, Blogger Zoanna said...

We have lit advent candles, one per Sunday leading up to Christmas. We take turns reading accompanying portions of scripture.

Another thing we started a few years ago was reading a chapter or two at bedtime from the gut-busting funny book called The Best Christmas Pageant Ever. Gut-busting until the last chapter, which I can't get through without a lot of Kleenex. If you've never read it, the best way to describe it is Redneck Rugrats Meet Baptist Brats--and both are changed through the experience of putting together a Christmas play at church.

 
At 7:34 PM, Blogger Briana Almengor said...

Zo,
I read that book to my students when I taught at the school, and I just finished my 2nd personal read through it yesterday! How funny that you mentioned that book. It may have to be a "must Christmas read" for my boys when they're old enough to appreciate it!

 
At 11:24 AM, Blogger Bev said...

We try so hard to get away from the whole "what am I getting for Christmas" syndrom with our kids. We do like to give our kids presents, but we limit them to 3 presents each, representing the three gifts that were given to Jesus on His birthday. This is a neat reminder of whose birthday we are actually celebrating.
We also do the advent thing Zoanna. I make up little song books for each person with a picture on the front. This year it has candles on the front. We also have different names for the candles. This year we have the candles of Grace, Giving, Godliness and ... umm, we haven't lit that one yet! Anyway, after we light the first candle, we read the first candle, sing a few songs from our books, and then spend lots of time coloring our pictures on the front of the books and fellowshipping around the table together.
On Christmas eve, we light the center candle which represents Jesus. We sing happy birthday and then have a snack before reading the Christmas Story and hanging stockings.

 
At 7:40 PM, Blogger Zoanna said...

Okay, I don't know if my convictions are making me curmudgeonly or what, but I'm about ready to do away with the tree and shopping altogether, honestly. Or at least celebrate Jesus' birth in the spring, when he was most likely born anyway (during lambing season). I am starting to like the idea of celebrating Hanukkah with fanfare instead, and not even trying to deal with guilt of trying to separate the commercial from the meaningful.

 

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